Interests and strengths:
- What subjects or activities do you enjoy the most at school?
- What do you think your strengths are?
Discussing beyond school options with your child
Talking about life after school can feel like a big step for you and your child.
It's also a chance to explore their interests, strengths, and future goals together. You don’t have to have all the answers. Being open, curious, and supportive is what really helps. And it’s normal not to know where to start.
Here are some simple questions to help you start the conversation.
Conversation starters
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Future goals
- Have you thought about what kind of work you might like to do one day?
- Where do you see yourself in five or ten years?
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Exploring options
- Have you thought about different paths like TAFE, university, an apprenticeship, or starting workafter school?
- Is there a job or type of work that interests you?
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Values and goals
- What’s most important to you when choosing a job? (e.g. helping others, job security, pay, working with your hands, or working in an office.)
- Do you have any long-term goals or dreams?
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Concerns and support
- Is there anything about the future that worries you?
- How can I support you while you figure things out?
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Practical steps
- Would you like to visit some universities, TAFEs or training centres to see what they offer? Or go to a career expo? (Your child's school might offer excursions to these)
- Do you want to talk to our Family Partnership Coordinator at The Smith Family?
Tips
- Start early and be open: Begin these conversations early so they don’t feel rushed. Be open to all paths — university, TAFE, apprenticeships, work, or a gap year.
- Listen actively: Encourage your child to share their interests and concerns. Listen without judgment. Talk about the different jobs people you know do, and what they involve.
- Explore together: Look at different options with them. This could include universities, TAFEs, apprenticeships, or other training opportunities. Attend open days or career expos if you can.
- Discuss goals and values: Talk about what matters most to them in a future job. This can help narrow down what paths might suit them.
- Encourage flexibility: Remind them it’s okay to change direction. Many people try different jobs or study something new later in life
Remember, you don’t need all the answers, and neither does your child. You can explore options and learn together.
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