Cyberbullying
Key takeaways
- Cyberbullying uses digital technology to harass, threaten or embarrass someone.
- To protect your child, use parental controls, adjust privacy settings and discuss online safety.
- If cyberbullying happens, you can help your child block the person, keep evidence and report it.
- Services like Kids Helpline and Headspace can help support you and your child.
Cyberbullying is when a person uses digital technology to bully someone. This can include harassing, threatening or embarrassing them.
Cyberbullying can happen on technology, including:
- text messages
- emails
- online games
- communication platforms like Discord
- social media platforms like TikTok or Snapchat.
All types of bullying can affect a child’s confidence and self-esteem. It can also make them feel lonely and less interested in school. You can support your child by understanding how bullying can happen with technology.
Kids Helpline has helpful information, including:
- what cyberbullying can look like
- signs your child may be experiencing cyberbullying
- ways you can support your child
Protecting your child
Simple online safety practices can help protect your child from cyberbullying. Staying safe online means being aware of online risks and taking steps to protect your personal information.
Online safety can include:
- setting up parental controls on your child’s device
- changing privacy settings to limit who can contact your child
- understanding cyberbullying and how to respond to it
- having regular conversations with your child about online safety
The Australian Government’s eSafety website has more information about online safety, including:
- how to keep your kids safe online
- how children and teens can protect themselves
- how to report online abuse
Responding to cyberbullying
If your child is experiencing cyberbullying, you don’t need to handle it alone. The Raising Children Network recommends these steps:
- Block or delete the person doing the cyberbullying.
- Keep evidence, such as screenshots or messages.
- Remind your child to tell someone (a trusted adult, parent, teacher) if they are being bullied.
- Report the bullying (see information below).
Ways to report cyberbullying
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If the cyberbullying involves your child’s school, you can ask your child's teacher or school principal for help.
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Report it on the platform where it happened
You can report cyberbullying directly on the website, app or game where it happened. The eSafety Guide explains how to report online abuse on various sites, apps and games.
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Report it to the eSafety Commission
You can report cyberbullying to the eSafety Commission. They investigate cyberbullying, image-based abuse (sharing images without consent), and illegal or restricted content. -
Contact the police if needed
You can report serious abuse to the police. If your child is in immediate danger, call 000.
Support is available
Children often feel better when they talk with a trusted parent, carer or teacher. They can also get support from trained counsellors:
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Kids Helpline
Kids Helpline is a free service for 5 to 25 year olds. Call 1800 55 1800 or use the online chat. -
headspace
headspace is a free service for 12 to 25 year olds. Call 1800 650 890 or create an online headspace account. -
Mental health treatment plan
A mental health treatment plan can help you access professional mental health support. Contact your GP to talk about options.
As a parent, you may also want support while helping your child through a difficult situation. You can access free counselling and support services:
- Parentline NT/QLD | Phone: 1300 30 1300
- Parent Line TAS | Phone: 1300 808 178
- Parent Helpline SA | Phone: 1300 364 100
- Parenting WA | Phone: 1800 111 546
- Parentline NSW | Phone: 1300 1300 52
- Parentline VIC | Phone: 13 22 89
- Parentline ACT | Phone: 02 6287 3833
- 13YARN Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islanders | Phone 13 92 76
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