School refusal: tips to support your child's return to school

• Figure out the reasons
  Understand why your child doesn't want to attend school. It might be because they are anxious, having trouble with friends, having academic worries, bullying, or facing other problems.
  
  
• Create a good routine
  Set a regular schedule for waking up, getting ready, and coming home from school. This routine can make things feel more predictable and less stressful.
  
  
• Be supportive
  Offer encouragement and praise when your child goes to school. Focus on their achievements and efforts.
  
  
• Work with the school
  Talk to teachers and staff about how to make the school a better place for your child.
  
  
• Listen and understand
  Make sure your child feels like they can talk to you about their feelings. Listen without judging, and let them know you understand.
  
  
• Connect with the school
  Build a good relationship with your child's teachers and attend school events to stay informed about their progress and any issues they may face.
  
  
• Provide rewards
  Give your child small rewards for attending school, like praise, extra privileges, or small treats.
  
  
• Seek professional help
  If the problem persists and causes significant distress, consult a therapist or counsellor specialising in school refusal.
  
  
• Stay patient
  Remember that it might take time for your child to get comfortable regularly attending school. Be patient and understanding throughout the process.

Helping your child go to school regularly can be challenging and takes time. It's really important to team up with their school and experts, adjust strategies for your child's needs, and create a loving, safe place for them to feel better about going to school and face their worries.